March 2017


On Threesomes

Isn’t it great when all your girlfriends are smoking hot babes that are excellent at sex? No need to answer, it’s hardly a moot point. One of my greatest joys is playing with others, and to that end, I’ve updated my friends page, to include = the divine Evelyn Greene. Also after several months of jet-setting, […]

Read more

On better sex

If you’re interested in having better sex (and who isn’t, frankly), you might like to read my thoughts on the matter in this Vice article.  In it, I talk about porn, sex drive, group sex, BDSM and non monogamy, as well as debunking the myth that great lovers know automatically what their partner wants: “We’ve got so […]

Read more

On selections

Whilst away in the countryside this weekend, and after unpacking a suitcase full of kinky accoutrement, my companion challenged me to select my five must-have ‘desert island’ bedroom accessories.  I wouldn’t exactly call myself a minimalist, but there was something quite appealing about the notion of streamlining my equipment in advance of being marooned on a hypothetical […]

Read more

On Variety

Perhaps it had escaped your notice, but I’m kind of kinky. I primarily identify as submissive, but the scales are increasingly swinging more towards switchy-ness – a transition that’s probably the subject of a future blog post all of its own. Sometimes prospective clients contact me and report an interest in trying BDSM for the first […]

Read more
Go top