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A little about myself

I’m Louisa Knight, an independent private companion and professional submissive. Despite my butter-wouldn’t-melt demeanor, I’m a high-class pervert at heart, and a poster girl for refined seduction and luxury BDSM. I offer elite sexual experiences to men and women who know what they enjoy, and aren’t afraid to seek it out. I’m based in London, but also travel internationally.

Perhaps you’ve heard about me? Good things I hope? Or maybe a few very bad things indeed. Forget the rumours. Let’s get to know one another a little better.

Born and raised in the English countryside, I’m the product of a fine education and endless curiosity. Unashamedly cerebral, I believe that truly exceptional encounters begin in the mind, and end with us both seeing stars.

My background may be traditional, but my desires are anything but. My tastes run to the wild, the indulgent and the debauched. I’m the first one to suggest a midnight skinny dip and the last one standing at an orgy. I know my way past the city’s most exclusive velvet ropes, or we could always throw a party in your hotel suite that you’ll never forget.

I have a particular love of erotic submission, and like to lose myself in power play. If you’re looking to indulge your more dominant side, I’ll take great pleasure in obeying your every command. But all of us are so much more than just one thing, and I’m as interested in losing myself in intimate, GFE, encounters as I am in something edgier. Ultimately, I chase genuine experiences that leave me wanting more, whatever roles we take behind closed doors.

My client list is carefully curated – I’m selective about who I spend my time with, and favour genuine connections over cursory encounters. I take lovers that care about something more than just aesthetics. Intelligence, originality and authenticity matters to them – just as it does to me.

If you’re someone that expects the very best, appreciates the unexpected, and pursues the truly unforgettable, let’s talk.

A little more

Why this life choice? And why now? Because Forster was right; connection is all we ever truly have. Lock eyes with a stranger, take their hand, and the world feels a little less strange for a while. I wanted a life rich in inspiring conversation, nervous butterflies, breathless laughter, speechless beauty, standing ovations and late night confessions. A life defined through desire. So, with the help of some rather exceptional men and women, I built one.

I think of myself pansexual – I’ve never had a physical ‘type’. Instead, I connect with people with a keen mind, a sharp wit, and a healthy scepticism towards everything society deems ‘respectable’. I don’t subscribe to monogamous relationships, as I’ve never believed just one person can meet my needs. I’m unapologetic about what I want. In a culture that disconnects us from our bodies, being bold about your pleasure is a radical thing.

I’m more interested in depth than surfaces, and as such, mine is a more natural aesthetic. I’ve no piercings or tattoos (although I love them on others) and am saving the cosmetic surgery for when I grow old disgracefully. I’m comfortable in my own skin, in a way that I hope enables others to be too. Despite what this shiny professional website might suggest. I don’t take myself too seriously, either. I laugh easily and often, especially at myself.

I’ve had (and still have) other careers outside of this, but I’ve yet to find anything else that’s as perpetually exciting and satisfying. Plus I’m not allowed to flounce around in lingerie at my other office, which is rather tiresome. However, in everything i’ve ever pursued, clothed or otherwise, it’s communication I’m especially drawn to.

Outside of the bedroom (for I do occasionally venture out), I am a writer, a postgraduate student, a theatre-goer, a photographer and a squash player (where what I lack in finesse I make up for in swearing loudly at my racket). I drink dry gin martinis as if they’re going out of fashion and listen to music that did years ago. My favourite writers include George Eliot, Dennis Kelly, Margaret Atwood, Angela Carter, Roberto Bolano, Chris Kraus and John Banville.

The quality I most admire in others is empathy – we can ever truly know each other’s struggles, but we should never stop caring. My ideal man is Robert Redford in The Sting, and my ideal woman is Hedy Lamarr. I have a weak spot for La Perla lingerie, people being kind to one another on public transport, scented candles, Aesop toiletries and Piet Oudolf gardens. I can eat an impressive amount of oysters, and know the very best tables in London for when you want to talk about smut without being overheard (which I often do).

Our meeting

When it comes to how we spend our time together, the world (and your imagination) is our oyster. I’m just as comfortable lounging in Egyptian cotton as I am awaiting your command on the end of a leash.

We can while away the hours in my Central London apartment, exploring your deepest desires and whispered fantasies. If you prefer to go out, let’s flirt over dinner and drinks before retiring for pudding. As a submissive, I’m especially drawn to kinky encounters, but I also enjoy more languid, intimate GFE experiences.

I play especially well with others, so perhaps we could also invite one of my friends to join our tryst. And if your prefer your flings a little further-flung, I travel internationally to meet foreign lovers.

Will you take my privacy seriously?

My entire professional reputation relies upon my discretion, so rest assured I take our mutual privacy very seriously. I will only ever ask for screening information as means of ensuring my well-being, If you have particular data protection concerns, I’d recommend making contact using a secure service like Shazzle Mail or Protonmail.

I know that our meeting will be even more memorable if we can both fully relax in each others’ company — if we feel mutually safe and trusting . If you’re concerned about running into acquaintances whilst we’re in public, I can recommend plenty of dark corners for us to spend an evening in. Or there’s always room service.

Can we correspond over email in advance?

If you’d like to get in touch (and I very much hope you do), we’ll exchange several emails about the sort of experience you’re looking for, as well the practical arrangements. However, I don’t enter into long email or text conversations beyond this, as frankly I prefer the pleasures of the flesh to those of the screen. Do have a look at my blog if you’re interested in my longer form writing or my twitter if you prefer something short and sweet.

Do you only do kink?

Life would be rather boring if we only stuck to one thing in bed. Whilst I’m undeniably partial to BDSM, I also genuinely enjoy more ‘vanilla’ encounters, and sessions of a GFE nature. For me, it’s variety that keeps sex exhilarating, and you can read more about this here.

I see you’re not on AdultWork – why not?

Sites such as Adultwork are at odds with my preferred way of working. My client list is extremely selective. I receive a high volume of enquiries, but chose to meet with a select few. These tend to be people that have sought me out directly. This ensures that I see clients that I believe I will have a genuine connection with, who are looking for something unique, and who I know are happy to comply with my safety protocols. As a result, Adultwork’s just not for me right now.

Can I buy you a gift?

I’d love that! Whilst never expected, gifts are always guaranteed to leave a smile on my face. My favourite tipples are champagne and artisanal gin, and my favourite flowers are peonies. If you’d like a little more guidance, my gift guide can be found here

Do you have any friends that could join us?

Most definitely. Threesomes and group sex hold a particular charge for me, especially when it comes to kink scenes. You can read more about my friends and preferred play partners here. Also, if you’ve previously met with any of my friends (or any other independent providers for that matter), do let me know so I can contact them for a reference. I always prioritise clients that are able to provide these.

Do you have any tattoos or other distinguishing features?

No tattoos and only small piercings (single studs in my ears). I prefer more of an ‘all natural’ aesthetic, and haven’t had any cosmetic surgery. I don’t tend to wear heavy make up, and prefer something chic yet understated. However, I do enjoying vamping things up a little more if a lover enjoys a bolder look, so feel free to ask.

How much notice do you need in advance of a meeting

Whilst this rather varies depending on commitments such as travel, my diary tends to be full at least two weeks ahead. Advance notice is a form of foreplay in my books.

Do you *party*?

For the uninitiated, this is a euphemism for drug usage. I don’t use drugs with my clients, and ask that you don’t arrive to our session under the influence – although if you want to use poppers, that’s absolutely fine. For reference, I don’t smoke cigarettes either. The occasional cigar, on the other hand, is always a treat.

Can I see a list of services that you provide?

Every session I provide is bespoke and forged from personal chemistry. As such, I don’t publish a check-list or menu of activities for clients to pick from. If you’re seeking a more cursory encounter of this nature, I’m probably not the provider for you, especially as my minimum date length is 2 hours. Furthermore, some of the services I offer are discretionary, so it’s best to contact me directly to discuss what you’re looking for.

Where will we meet?

If we’re meeting for an incall, I’ll host you at my apartment in central London. It’s slap bang in the middle of one of the busiest parts of the capital, so very convenient to access; there’s no wandering down badly-lit alleyways or long hotel corridors. Once away from the hustle and bustle of Soho, I’ll whisk you into a space that is elegant, clean and calm. It’s also full of toys, kinky equipment and lingerie for us to pass the time with, although if you’re after more specialist kink furniture, let’s discuss visiting a dungeon.

What do you enjoy?

A very good question indeed. I’m always thrilled to discuss my own kinks and desires, and to guide a lover in what gives me pleasure. Sessions with me are also an occasion for my clients to give their own sexual needs the singular attention they deserve, and I find facilitating this especially satisfying. Feeling desired, and knowing I’m fulfilling a lover’s fantasy, really excites me too.

Are you real?

Existential, I like it. I appreciate that one ought to keep an eye out for catfish in this day and age, but rest assured, I’m genuine. You can check my twitter for selfies and updates, and you’ll see from my Friends Page that I’m fortunate enough to keep company with a host of other independent providers.

I have a rather specific fetish, Is that something we can explore?

Absolutely. I’m always excited to hear from clients with particular or unusual fetishes. In the past, I’ve met with clients who have fetishes for things such as objects, clothing, body parts, sensations or memories – fetishism is a broad church. Maybe you’re aroused by things such as tickling, cross-dressing, watersports or smoking. Whatever you enjoy, rest assured, I’m unshockable, and always keen to learn more about different facets of human sexuality.

Do you see couples?

Sometimes. I love playing with couples, but only do so when I’m confident that both parties are equally eager to be there. If that’s you, wonderful, I can’t wait to hear from you.

I’m a journalist/blogger, can I interview you?

Perhaps unsurprisingly, I am really selective about media. If you have a proven track record of writing intelligently about sex, sex work and kink, absolutely, feel free to get in touch with examples of your past work and a brief outline of the piece. If you’re looking to write the same old article about high class escorts and sexual empowerment, I’m not the contributor for you.

Do you ever tour?

I’m rather besotted with London, so tend to pass my time here. However, I tour occasionally, and post updates on my twitter. accordingly And of course, for those that prefer immediate gratification, there’s always the option to fly me to you, or jetting off somewhere tropical and secluded together. I’ll bring a bikini and those little cocktail umbrellas.

Aim higher than acronyms. Reject one-size-fits-all, and seek out your equal. Pursue a lover with a mind as sharp as her stilettos and a rebellious streak that’s reserved for those unafraid of it.

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